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面对任性的孩子家长们应该怎么办

发布时间:2013-12-26 15:46:47  

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面对任性的孩子家长们应该怎么办

其实每个孩子在小的时候,总是任性的,经常的手段有苦恼、哀求、缠烂打,那么面对这样的孩子,家长们你们有什么法宝呢?

如果家里有个任性的孩子,往往弄得家长又气又急,打也不成,说也不听,家长一点办法都没有。那么,面对任性的孩子,家长到底应该怎么办呢?

为了实现自己的要求,哭闹是孩子最常用的手段。而很多父母怕的就是孩子这一招。一旦孩子哭闹起来,父母马上缴械投降,不但无条件满足孩子的要求,而且常常“超额”完成“任务?

孩子有3种“任性手段”

为了达到某种目的,3-8岁的孩子大都学会使用以下的四种“手段”。

手段排行第一:哭闹

为了实现自己的要求,哭闹是孩子最常用的手段。而很多父母怕的就是孩子这一招。一旦孩子哭闹起来,父母马上缴械投降,不但无条件满足孩子的要求,而且常常“超额”完成“任务”。

手段排行第二:哀告

乞求孩子是可爱的,当他向父母哀告乞求要某样东西时,没有几个父母抵挡得住他的温柔进攻。

手段排行第三:死缠烂打

“持久战”的理论对孩子来说再熟悉不过了。他的目的是要用“磨”来让父母答应他的要求,而且不达目的誓不罢休!

手段排行最后:赌气噘嘴、不说话、摔东西、不吃饭??

孩子赌气的时间,一般持续得较长,因为孩子已掌握了心理战的秘诀,没耐心的父母只好举手投降。

Each child in a small, actually always capricious, often means of distressed and cried out, tie up lousy dozen, so in the face of such www.cdsycg.com children, parents do you have any magic weapon?

If a wilful child in the home, often make parents gas and rush, play failed, also said also don't listen to, parents can't do anything. Then, in the face of wayward child, parents should how to do?

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2 In order to realize their own requirements, crying is the most commonly used means of children. While many parents afraid of be this recruit children. Once the child crying, parents will surrender, not only meet the requirements of children unconditionally, and often "excess" complete "task...

There are three children "capricious"

In order to achieve a certain purpose, 3 to 8 years old most children learn to use the following four "means".

Means of ranking the first: the crying

In order to realize their own requirements, crying is the most commonly used means of children. While many parents afraid of www.jnhshr.com be this recruit children. Once the child crying, parents will surrender, not only meet the requirements of children

unconditionally, and often "excess" complete "task".

No means 2: cry

Beg for children are cute, when he asked parents beg beg for something, few parents resist his gentle attack.

The third means: dead to tie up lousy dozen

The theory of "protracted war" familiar for children. His aim is to use "grinding" to let the parents agreed to his request, and vowed to reach the goal don't give up!

Method was finally: anger pout, don't talk, throwing things, don't eat...

Children's anger time, lasts much longer, because the child, he had mastered the secret of psychological warfare, impatient parents had to surrender.

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